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What did one plate say to the other?

Lunch is on me.

I am writting this post as me and one of my freinds had a talk about this today. One of the kids we know thats 13 treats his mother badly. BLEEP this and what the BLEEP, and the occasional why are you being such a bi***. The mom is a verry nice lady and just cant seem to force herself to put him over her knee and beat his butt. Me and the freind were talking bout this case in particular and one of the things I said (cause I wasnt sure if his family way the same as mine) is I would be scared to talk to my mother like that. I said "I love my mother to deathe but I would be scared I would get hit with something heavy like a shoe or get smack across the face." The freinds reasponce was "yea I know what you man he treats his mom bad man sometimes I just feel like saying yo austin be a little more respectful man."
Not only that but I saw some kids getting in trouble with the police. One of the kids could have gotten out of any trouble by just not saying anything but he had to be a smart *** and trash talk the cop.
I am not one to say sometimes I have not disrespected a adult because of a certain mood I am in. But much of the youth today are plain disrespestful.

The USA seems it wil cripple with the youth it has now.

I have tried to perdict what would kill humanity. Would it be technology getting to smart, would it be everyone nuking eachother, UFO (from another planet not from earth), dolphins taking control, or a mad man killing everyone with some creating he made. I have considered all the ways and I think something that everyone has experienced at one point is what it will be. This thing can tear down the strongest man in the world bringing him to his knees and making him cry. And it could be the reason for depression, smoking, drinking, vacations, murders, sucide, and in some casses religion. What I am talking about is stress. It greatly affects the mind and can break any person down. It can even cause pain in your body. What do you all think?

In a day someone has to watch over themselves from saying anything that can offend anyone are we truely free? When will enough be enough. Is this becuase of stress? Or will we eventualy become so scared to voice our opinions on anything that we find the right to free speech has been taken away from us?

It seems technology is evolving 1,000x the speed of humans. Are we going to become to attached to it and run our lives by it, or have we already grown to attached? Will it one day save the human race or will it one day destroy us? Couple days ago my DSL went out and I tried using my computer 6 times for basic things! I felt so naked without the internet being avaliable when my computer is next to me. Anyone else feel this way or have any arguements?

So there is this thing called myspace most every young kid worries about. They are worried kids are getting rapped by sex offenders meeting them on the site. Well HUMMMMM LETS SEE. One there is this thing called privacy,,, you can set your profile so it doesnt show anything untill you add them as a freind,,,. The thing with the email is you have to have a email account to set up myspace account. They want to have all sex offenders regester their emails. LOL (laugh out loud) they think that one of them couldnt make a 2nd email. Some sites I could make another email in 1 minute (no joke 1 minute). Want to hear what you think

Hellow I am part of an OHS Boxing Program and were are trying to be active in our community by helping out. The group is composed of manny diffrent young men and some young laddies. I am here to ask for suggestions on things we could do as a community service. We are a verry strong group of indivuduals so heavy lifting would not be a problem. But we are also a smart group and helping tutor younger kids would be no problem. We have already thought of ideas such as helping boy and girls club with tutoring and others it is to early for me to re-call of the top of my head. Please tell me any ideas you have around Manassas, VA 20110 that we can help with. I will be bringing your ideas to a group meeting as soon as posiable.

I am appart of an boxing program called 12 Rounds. This program was offered for no free as a club inside of my school. Along with this program not only were you trained to box: you were encoureged to stop any sticky situations you may have been envolved in, encouraged to watch what you eat, told that any fights happening outside of the ring (fights or violence inside the school) would be totoaly against the rules, you were educated in what we call conflict mediation.

Sticky situations meaning anything you were doing such as smoking ciggarets, drinks, ect..... would cause your body to kill itself (though we have programs such as DARE in school they only offer information and speech this gives you hand on experience if you would have been smoking then you wouldnt of been able to keep up and you would feel the dammage you had done).

Encouraging people to watch what they eat to be able to stay in shape (so manny are concerned of obesity these days this should be something that everyone would love for us kids).

While being in this program you were told any fights out of the ring would be a bad decision on your part (though you were taugh to fight you learnt it doesn't mean aply it all the time. I myself saved myself from getting in a total of 2 fights because of the encouragment that I recieved not to get into any fights.

Conflict mediation was a program we had inside the 12 rounds training kids how to effectively stop violence inside of the school. If word caught out of a posiable fight or even words were thrown inside the classroom a person from the program would be called in to settle the dispute. With conflict medation it was a kid talking to them not an adult (sorry adults someones you can be one sided and blame someone while a trained kid can settle it without making it worse). If all went well by the end of the meeting and the person that was going to settle the dispute and an adult dicided that violence would not be started between these two then the students would be realsed without a major punishment (this keeps a fight from happening and saves the kid from getting in trouble).

The problem is now our club has no place to train. The place we were training at Johnson learning center (the alternative school next to our school) does not want us there and has been given us reasons that quite frankly as BS (sorry for any language abuse). We were gonna have a back up plane a place inside of our school still smaller but would have worked (well OHS thinks our program is bad (but dont tell them I told you that cause it makes them look bad)) And a place we had at an elementry school 2 seconds across the street was also told we would not be able to use.

Not to mention the main coach we have is also one of the guidence councelors most loved at OHS. Mr. Maiden (the coach and councelor) has been a positive influence on everyone in the program and has helped at every single one of the people that come in at least one way.

I beg you this program is what kept me from skating on the streets of Old Town Manassas and being a a general disturbence. As well as stoping fights (mine, and others) and keeping myself in shape. I belive that we could get this program back with help from you bloggers here and parents of the people in the program.

Please I beg you I took the time to write this please please read it. It is important to me and thank you for your time.

Just watching the news right now and happened to see that the waitress was left 400 dollars. My mother told me of a story from when she was waiting at a truck stop. This man was chocking on some food. My mother being the strong female she is grabbed the man and saved his life. After the incident the man soon became a regular always leaving 20,,30,,40 dollar tips to my mother. After a couple times the man had come by and left these massive tips she told the man that while greatly aprecieative of the tips the deed was well paid and he could keep his money now (as polietly as possiable). The man understood and again thanked her for saving his life. While also somewhat realated their was a guy we called santa. I was sitting in a booth full of bordem waiting for my mother to get off of work (around the age of 11). I meet a freind thats parents were eating dinner and talking so he was alowed to play. My mother pointed to a man and said "Hey Tony its Santa" I said no way she said yea go talk to him. My freind thinking he was grown up said their is no santa. So I walked up and said "Hey santa my mom said to talk to you" A "BLEEP BLEEP BLEEP hellow little man" came from his mouths 10 dollars was handed to me by the man as he said "No run along and spend that money up now". As my new found freind saw this he decided santa was real and talked to him to. Anyone else have any stories of someone spreadying joy or someone helping them in times of need?